My thoughts on Zikora


Simply put

The journey of a woman's life;

From being born of a woman 

To bearing your own children. 

There is a little on men, career, bad decisions, communication and it's effect on the woman's life. 

There is also a war between

Choosing one's self and settling for less. 

I can't wrap my head around why 

Kwame blocked Zikora completely from his life. 

Was it because she kept the baby or 

Because she made the decision independently. 

This seems to be the case of the intent of the act being more severe and damaging than the act itself. 

This has to be one of those questions whose answers one never gets to find. 


Love, Deedee 

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