stories&nuggets

  I just feel I need to explain.  There was no writers block or anything tragic.  There was just a crazy ass, draining 8-5. Talk about means to an end.  I came back exhausted almost everyday.  And there were other extra curricula activities.  Funny enough, I had a lot to write about.  I even had a journal which I documented on every other day.  But Fam, no time to enter internet.  So, I apologize.  I've not quit my job yet, but I will soon do so.  Because I didn't come to this life to suffer like that.  And I miss blogging.  Funny thing is, in the middle of all this stress, I met the love of my life, got engaged and we are already planning the ceremony.  I'm going to be a godmother soon too.  Can't wait to meet Mateo.  I didn't travel last December because of corona even though I saved up, plus I didn't get a break at work. In fact, I officially started the new year this past Monday.  I finally wrote down the details of my plans for the year et al.  My dear, pla

More often than not, family isn't bloodline and friends are closer than brothers Love is found far from home and home is everywhere but the place you lay your head and you once shared with your siblings So the search shouldn't be in the box called family name, rather outside the box, outside the house The search should be everywhere your feet thread or the search shouldn't even be Just treat everyone like you share the surname Adam There and then, love unveils herself Acceptance, in the form of open arms, a shoulder to cry on, a token when in need, shows itself without you working to earn it In a nutshell,  Your family may not love and accept you as you yearn for but  There's more than family in friends and loved ones around you Accept the love they give and give back One day, maybe your family will come around, or not  But you'll be fine with no hard feelings Life will be good Life will go on Las las, everything go dey alright   XOXO Love, Deedee